I admit that I do make the mistake of making insentive remarks or asking insensitive questions from time to time. But wait. Don't u make that mistake too? Or are u too 'insensitive' to realise it yourself? So do u think u are qualified to say that i'm being insensitive? I'm serious about wanting to become a better and wiser person. But judging me ain't gonna help. Being more patient towards me will. When people say or do things that may make me feel uncomfortable, or at worst, hurt, I would most often then not keep quiet and hang on tight to my shield of faith. I only retaliate or react when i feel that it is too much already. As brothers and sisters, we ought to bear with one another. Are u willing to bear with me when i make mistakes like these? Honestly, rubbing it in makes me feel condemned. And u were doing it in front of two other people.(But i thank God that it was a humbling experience.) Sadly, i don't see the wisdom in your words, neither do I feel the love in them. But i keep quiet. Why? Because I was trying hard to respect you and to not let the issue drag on any longer. Pastor Phill preached it. Who's following it? Keep your opinions to yourself if u treasure our relationship. Within this strong exterior is a tender heart. A sensitive and loving one.